I Love You. I’m In Love With You. I Choose You Daily.

 


I Love You. I’m In Love With You. I Choose You Daily.

In marriage, words are more than just sounds—they are seeds. The words we speak over our spouse can plant life, hope, and strength into the relationship, or they can slowly chip away at its foundation. Three simple phrases, spoken often and with sincerity, have the power to reaffirm your commitment, rekindle passion, and remind your spouse of their irreplaceable place in your heart:

"I love you."
"I'm in love with you."
"I choose you daily."

When said regularly, these statements do more than express feelings—they declare a covenant truth. And when backed by God’s Word, they become even more powerful.

1. “I Love You” – The Foundation of Covenant Love

Saying “I love you” is not just about emotion—it’s about reminding your spouse that your love is rooted in the unshakable covenant you made before God. Love in marriage should mirror the love Christ has for His Church—sacrificial, enduring, and unconditional.

The Bible says:

“Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud… It always protects, always trusts, always hopes, always perseveres. Love never fails.” – 1 Corinthians 13:4-8 (NIV)

When you say “I love you,” you’re affirming that your commitment isn’t dependent on circumstances or perfection—it’s steadfast, just like God’s love for us (Romans 5:8). Those words are a daily reminder that your spouse is secure in your devotion.

2. “I’m In Love With You” – Keeping the Romance Alive

Being “in love” speaks to affection, attraction, and intimacy. It’s the spark that first drew you together—and while it naturally changes over time, it should never disappear. Saying “I’m in love with you” reminds your spouse that your heart still delights in them, that you still see them as your beloved.

The Bible gives a beautiful picture of romantic love in Song of Solomon:

“You have captivated my heart, my sister, my bride; you have captivated my heart with one glance of your eyes.” – Song of Solomon 4:9

Romantic love is a gift from God to be nurtured and enjoyed in marriage. Expressing this keeps the emotional connection alive and fights against the slow drift toward complacency. It says, “Not only do I care for you deeply—I still want you.”

3. “I Choose You Daily” – The Power of Intentional Commitment

Love is not just a feeling—it’s a choice. And choosing your spouse daily is one of the most Christ-like things you can do. Every day brings opportunities to choose your spouse over selfish desires, over distractions, and over the temptation to take them for granted.

Joshua’s words to Israel apply powerfully to marriage:

“But as for me and my household, we will serve the Lord.” – Joshua 24:15

In marriage, this means: “As for me, I will keep serving you, loving you, and honoring the covenant we made.” Choosing your spouse daily reflects God’s own faithfulness, who never abandons His people (Lamentations 3:22-23). It’s an active declaration: “I’m still in this. With you. For you. Always.”

Speaking Life Into Your Marriage

When you say “I love you. I’m in love with you. I choose you daily,” you’re doing more than speaking words—you’re reinforcing the spiritual, emotional, and physical bond of your marriage.

Here’s why it matters:

  • Affirmation fuels security. Your spouse should never have to wonder where they stand in your heart.

  • Romance keeps intimacy alive. Even decades later, passion can still grow.

  • Choice builds trust. Love that is chosen again and again becomes unshakable.

Proverbs 18:21 reminds us:

“The tongue has the power of life and death, and those who love it will eat its fruit.”

Your words can breathe life into your marriage. Let them be words that echo God’s love—faithful, passionate, and intentional.

A Challenge for You

Today, and every day this week, look your spouse in the eyes and say:

  1. “I love you.”

  2. “I’m in love with you.”

  3. “I choose you daily.”

Then back it up with actions that show those words are true. You may be surprised how these simple, powerful phrases—rooted in God’s truth—can transform the atmosphere of your home.

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